Top Tips to choose your wife/ husband

Know yourself
This step is very important if you really want to
choose the right partner. You have to know
yourself. Some people are searching in all corners
of the earth for their soulmate but come back in
vain. One of the reasons of that failure is that the
bachelor did not ask himself. So the, before loving
someone, before making your choice on the right
guy or girl to marry, start by asking yourself the real
questions: who are you? What do you want? What
are you expecting from your partner? What do you
like most? All these little questions may seem tiny
but are very important. It is after answering these
questions to yourself that you can start defining who
you are and what you really want.
Be positive and keep smiling
After knowing yourself, you can now begin to
change your mind. The next key for alluring your
future wife or husband is being positive. By being
positive, people will automatically call on you, run to
you and would like to by your side because of the
energy you are spreading all around you. Don’t
worry, it’s metaphysical. Keep smiling, not in
blissful ignorance but the acceptation of the reality:
that you are what you are, good-looking and
valuable. These two steps are more than essential.
It is all in the attitude.
What do you want?
There is no formula in love. You may already know
the type of guy/girl you would like to date and that
is correct. You find your love and that is all. If you
have not yet defined clearly what kind of person
you want to be your husband or wife, do not worry.
These are things that have to be discovered solely
and patiently. The person may not be what you
have been expecting, but if there is love,
communication can begin.
Common interest
The proverb says that birds of the feather lock
together. This may be true in some cases but
generally speaking, the two individuals need a
common interest. It may be playing video games or
horse riding. It doesn’t matter; you just have to be
sure that there is, at least, two things that you like
to do with the other person. This will play a big role
in the couple’s future life together.
Can you communicate to each other?
This is another key point. Two persons who cannot
talk to each other just cannot live together. For a
period of time, it can be possible but for a long-term
relationship, it does not work. The two peoples have
to share their feelings (happiness, likes and dislikes,
anger, etc.) to each one other. And once again, we
repeat it: communication is the basis of a long-term
and happy marriage.
These are just few tips but the decision is yours. Be
who you are, be positive, define what you want and
what you do not want and finally choose someone
that you can talk with and who has a common
interest with you.
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