5 Men you Need to Meet, Not Marry

5 Men you Need to Meet, Not Marry
By PositiveMed-Team
Edited By: Stephanie Dawson
• A man who never wanted to commit – until
he met you
If a man proclaims that he will never settle
down with anyone and then he changes when
he meets you, that’s the first signal that this
is not the kind of man whom you should
marry. You may feel wonderful that he
changed his mind after meeting you and he
is now ready to settle down, but the moment
things become less exciting, less amazing
between you he is likely to have second
thoughts on commitment. You should meet
this man as it helps you differentiate
between this guy and the guy that you
actually need to marry.
• The guy who knows everyone
Even though you will get some benefits when
you are seeing such a guy, like a table at the
hot new restaurant, or send your resume to a
company where he has contacts, beware of
marrying such men as they will be busy
sending emails or responding to texts most
of the time and not able to give much time
to you. Look at him as a friend because of
his desire to help and sociability but that
should be all.
• A guy who is sensitive, funny, and
charming but says nothing when you ask him
if something is wrong
You should date this kind of man because he
has so many wonderful qualities but also
because you will learn about the importance
of open communication. Marriages are long-
term relationships, if you are not able to
communicate openly, this long-term
relationship might not last for long.
• All your friends are in awe as he is so good
looking, wealthy, or successful
Keep an eye on how your friends and
acquaintances react when you walk into a
room with him. Do their eyes widen ever so
slightly on seeing you enter the room? A
marriage is much more than this. How your
friends react seeing you together is
secondary, what is most important is that
you live each and every amazing moment
that you spend together. Ensure the guy you
choose to marry is the one with whom you
can spend time alone.
• The earnest, bright-eyed younger man who
adores you
You may feel optimistic about humanity and
yourself when meeting this types of guy.
Don’t expect your romance to continue for
long. Not because he is younger, because
one-sided adoration inevitably curdles into
resentment that the feelings are not mutual.
Its wise to meet this types of man, not marry
them, the best option for both of you.